You need a compass and a clear plan.

Your New Voyage: Reality-Based Breakup Recovery for Men is a step-by-step course designed to:

• Detox your mind from spiraling thoughts
• Release attachment to someone who chose a different path
• Reclaim your masculine center without bravado or false positivity
• Anchor yourself in truth and rebuild with clarity

You can go at your own pace. No Zoom calls. No group talks. No coaching calls. Just a private clear path forward, on your own terms.

And it works. Not by pumping you up, but by connecting you to reality—and showing you a clear path to becoming the kind of man who doesn’t just recover, but gets stronger.

So what’s the cost?

Some men spend weeks (or months) stuck in their own heads after a breakup—looping the same questions, trying to find answers that never come.

Some spend $100s or $1,000s in therapy, at  $30 (co-pays) to $150 (full self-pay) an hour, hoping once-a-week 50-minute sessions will untangle the pain fast enough to move on before they age out of their hopes and dreams for life. Therapy can be crucial. But you need a personal framework too. That's what this course offers.

Others bury the pain. (It rises up zombie-like, and always will until you deal with it.)

Or numb it with alcohol or drugs. (Destroying health, careers, and other relationships.)

Or live with it in a depressed, gray-weather state for the rest of their lives.  

I created this clear course as a faster, grounded, experienced self-help clear path forward.

It’s not a substitute for therapy.

But not everyone needs therapy. It depends on each individual.

And having a clear path forward, a clear solid structure, can accelerate any therapy you do decide to get. 

You learn healing either way, but faster in a structured, pace-yourself course.

It's a way to clear the noise, steady yourself, and begin healing faster.

Therapy? it can run into the $hundreds (co-pays with insurance) or $thousands (self-pay at $130/hour). 

My course to STOP YOUR PAIN? $47. One-time payment. 

You’ll get 10 clear lessons—each one built from real experience (two big breakups), years of reading and practice in Stoic literature and Eastern non-attachment, and other emotional resilience tools most men were never taught.

THE CONTENT OF THE COURSE: Your New Voyage: Reality-Based Breakup Recovery for Men

Lesson One: Welcome — This is Where We Begin

• You're not alone.
  This course was built by a man who has been through not one, but two major heartbreaks—including a recent, painful breakup of a 10-year committed relationship.

• Time alone doesn't heal.
  It's right thinking and right action that move you forward—not just the passing of time.

• What this course is not
  It’s not about blaming her, suppressing feelings, or pretending you’re fine. It’s also not about alpha posturing or shallow “move on” advice.

• What it IS about:
  Simple, direct steps to help you:

  • Steady yourself after heartbreak

  • Quiet the mental chaos

  • Rebuild inner strength with clear, grounded action

• Framing matters:

  • Stoicism Simplified: You’ll learn to stop giving energy to things outside your control and refocus on what’s yours: your thoughts, your actions, your path.

  • Non-Attachment Simplified: You don’t need her or for this breakup to have never happened in order to be at peace. That freedom is within reach, and you’ll learn how to begin practicing it.

• Structure of the course:

  • Short videos

  • Optional, simple exercises

  • No pressure—just the next right step, at your own pace 

Lesson Two: The Storm Inside - Naming the Hurt

• Breakup pain can feel like madness — but it’s not. It’s chemistry, grief, and confusion colliding at once.
• This lesson helps you name what you feel, reclaim your attention, and stop the spiral before it controls you.
• You’ll learn how to stay grounded in the storm and find real strength in simple presence.
• Because when you stop fighting your emotions, they pass more quickly. And when they pass enough times, you heal.

Lesson Three: Who Are You? (And Who Are You Becoming?)

• After a breakup, your old identity often collapses. That’s painful—but it’s also a clean slate.
• In this lesson, you’ll stop chasing validation and start rebuilding from the inside out.
• Not with clichés or distractions, but by choosing the kind of man you deeply respect—and living toward him.
• Because real strength isn’t about money or power. It’s about the virtues you choose when the world stops making sense.

Lesson Four: Stop Gazing Backward - A Mental Trap

•  After heartbreak, your brain loops the past like it’s a puzzle you can solve—replaying what she said, what you did, how it all went wrong.
• But there’s no solution in those replays. Only pain.
• This lesson helps you break the mental spiral and reclaim your focus.
• You’ll learn how to stop feeding thoughts that keep you stuck—and how to choose presence instead.
• Because your power isn’t in what was. It’s in who you are becoming, and what you do next. 

Lesson Five: Stop Trying to Understand Her

• After a breakup, it’s natural to obsess over her motives.
  • “Why did she leave?”
  • “Did she ever love me?”
  • “Was it all a lie?”
• But obsessing over unanswerable questions won’t bring peace—it just deepens the ache.
• This lesson helps you reclaim your power by turning from her story to your own.
• You’ll learn the dead-simple Stoic shift: focus only on what’s yours to control—your values, your growth, your next step.
• You don’t need to understand her reasons to find freedom. You need your own direction.

Lesson Six: Get it Out of Your Head - and Your Body

• Breakup grief lives in the body as much as the mind.
• If you don’t move it, it sticks… turning into rage, exhaustion, numbness.
• This lesson gives you tools to release the pressure—through movement, breath, and grounded rituals.
• You’ll learn how to let go without lashing out, how to feel without getting stuck -- letting pain pass through, so you can stand lighter, clearer, and stronger.
• You don’t have to carry this forever.

Lesson Seven: Regain Control in Your Life

• When a storm of grief hits, it’s easy to feel powerless.
• But even in a storm, there’s one place where your strength lives: your attention.
• You don’t control her, the past, or the waves of emotion—but you can choose where to focus, what to do next, and how to respond.
• This lesson gives you the mindset and daily tools to reclaim your stability—one breath, one rep, one small win at a time.

Lesson Eight: Reclaim Your Masculine Ground

• This lesson shows how to drop the false stories and identities that no longer serve you.
• Sustainable masculinity doesn't depend on loudness, extraversion, domination—it’s clear, grounded, and can be quietly powerful.
• You’ll learn to rewrite the false story you tell yourself—not to deny the pain, but to stand in authorship of your life going forward.
• You'll let go of the need to be validated by others' reactions to you, or to be seen as “right.”
• You’re not what she did. Or what you did. That's past. Now you’re who you choose to be next. 

Lesson Nine: What Healing Actually Looks Like (How to Know)

• You might think you’re failing because it still hurts. Or because a memory blindsided you again.
• But real recovery doesn’t look clean. It's not a straight line.
• It looks like chaos some days and quiet strength on others.
• This lesson shows you how to recognize the hidden signs of progress most men miss, so you'll keep going and not give in to numbing it or distracting yourself.
• You’ll stop mistaking natural, necessary grief for weakness—and start seeing it for what it is: a step toward healing that gets shorter and easier over the weeks.

Lesson Ten: Your Next Chapter Begins Now

• You don’t have to wait to feel perfect to begin again. You’ve survived the storm—now it’s time to build something solid, even if the ache is sometimes still there.
• In this final lesson, you’ll claim a clear direction, not by grinding or chasing status, but by choosing one meaningful pursuit and committing to it like a man who knows his worth.
• This is where healing deepens—through action, through intention, through movement.
• You’re not a victim of the past. You’re the author of what comes next. 

DON'T LET THIS PAIN DEFINE YOU

Every man who stays stuck in the loop of heartbreak risks more than sadness. He risks becoming bitter.

Distrustful.

Lost.

And it becomes a part of who he is.  

But the man who takes the path of clarity and reality? He earns something far greater:

• Confidence that isn’t performative
• Freedom from performative manipulation of women.
• Peace that doesn’t depend on others
• The capacity to love again—from strength, not need

START YOUR RECOVERY NOW

1.  Join the course now and begin reclaiming yourself.
2. Don’t wait to "feel ready." Readiness is a result of action. Start the first lesson immediately.
3. Feel your pain drain away more rapidly, be the decider of who you're becoming next, and get back into your life with more authenticity and freedom than ever before.